One thing that really works on making a girl attracted to you is teasing. Girls react really well to it because this will tell them that you are a confident guy and not looking for their approval. This is also the reason who so many guys try to tease a girl by using text messages. But how does this really work? How can you tease a girl through texts you send her?
The thing about teasing is, that it works really well in a face to face interaction. When you do it to a girl, she will immediately recognize that you are teasing her. She will read your facial expressions and your vocal tonality and know that you are just making fun. But these things can not be transferred over text. That's why you only way to tease a girl is to use your vocabulary.
Although this might seem like a much harder task, if you give her the impression that you are a fun guy and she can always get a laugh when talking to you, you don't really have to worry that much about it. However, this is probably the biggest obstacle for most guys. They are so worried about offending a girl, that they avoid teasing her completely and just talk to her normally – or in a boring way.
But you don't really have to worry. Women are really good at understanding your intentions and rarely (if ever) assume that you are intentionally trying to offend them, especially if your conversation before was fun and exciting. So do not be afraid to tease a girl.
The best way to tease a girl over text is to just joke around and in between joking, just give her a funny nickname or just say something outlandish about her. If she has any sense of humor at all, she will immediately recognize that you are teasing her and see that you are a cocky and funny guy.
The only thing you have to worry about teasing her over text messages is, that if she decides to meet up, you have to deliver as well. She needs to see that you are the same confident and funny guy in real life and not only in your text messages. If she sees that, you will have no problems getting her to date you.